A scene, couple of weeks back in San Diego Airport.
While waiting to board, I was observing a cute family, sitting next to me. A sweet 7 year old son with a beautiful mom and a handsome dad. The parents in the scene are very understanding couple, and there is enough love between them. I can say that, looking at the way, they cared for each other.
On the other side, The dad is very much interested in tattooing himself, and got enough tattoo thro out his body, carries a tattooing magazine. ( Dont imagine a big guy, in redneck look with Harley motorcycle :), He seems a pretty sensible guy. Mom got a magazine, which is all about Tshirts, with weird (in my old-school eyes) designs, Sexy models on the Tshirts, flaunting their sophisticated physique, instead of unique designs on T Shirts.
The kid is very curious about each parent's magazine. He wants to know about each tattooing and about these sexy models. I am damn sure, the kid already has enough knowledge in this area, along with much more curiosity left behind the scene. I' ld bet, He' ld become a master in these areas in another 2 years, which in my view, a lot to carry or process in a little intellectual mind.
On the positive note, The kid is going to understand the art of relationship and idea about love and care. He ll not have any second thought on that, and will not compromise his standards on relationship or marriage. He ld turn out to be an awesome dad or partner, provided he meets the right person for his personality.
But I am very concerned about his little brain to process with these sensitive images in magazine. And more concerned about what this kid could leak out to his fellow kids in his school, and how other little kids going to process/pass that information.
Think about this little boy, who may get into a relationship tomorrow, with someone who has been raised in right blend of values. He ld not just pass what he has got in his mind, but would definitely influence the partner, since thats what his belief system is, reason being thats what his mind is being conditioned and convinced with , thro' out his entire childhood. In that way, he would affect another girl (hopefully not a guy ;)) whom he is going to be in relationship with. He also may pass on the right idea of love and understanding between couple. But if his partner is not able to deal his matured intellect on those areas, girl may leave the relationship with scar and fear. In this way, this kid really will affect the other woman in his future. Lets go to the next step and assume, they will have a kid. The future kid will get inherited with "the same intellect mind" from dad. And story will continue from generation to generation.
This is just an example , where my mind absorbed and looked an exaggerated example on parenting. But there are lot other parents, who are totally on to themselves , selfish, hypocrites, obsessed about their career or wealth or beauty, too proud of nothing, arrogant and strict in the name of disciplining kids, blowing petty issues out of proportion on any matter, sadists, pampering kids too much, not knowing what the other side of the world into, not having awareness or empathy about poor or sufferers, dominant, still living in male chauvinistic world, on wrong morale values or ethics, still thinking that wealth or money-making is considered success of the humans, too diplomatic or wicked. My list could go on.. but I hate to put lot of negative words on my blog :) Where is the society going? Parents.. Please take some personal time to see what your child observes from you.
I wont say it is just kids mistake, when they grow up. Any soul on this earth may not be responsible for his/her first 15 to 20 years of life, where parents idea of raising kid supercedes childhood's innocense. And later on thats what becomes kid's school of fabric.
In my view, what parents pass on kid, thats what kids carry on their belief systems. Every parent is capable of either passing on a virus or right character to the future society. So please be wise enough, be a human!
While waiting to board, I was observing a cute family, sitting next to me. A sweet 7 year old son with a beautiful mom and a handsome dad. The parents in the scene are very understanding couple, and there is enough love between them. I can say that, looking at the way, they cared for each other.
On the other side, The dad is very much interested in tattooing himself, and got enough tattoo thro out his body, carries a tattooing magazine. ( Dont imagine a big guy, in redneck look with Harley motorcycle :), He seems a pretty sensible guy. Mom got a magazine, which is all about Tshirts, with weird (in my old-school eyes) designs, Sexy models on the Tshirts, flaunting their sophisticated physique, instead of unique designs on T Shirts.
The kid is very curious about each parent's magazine. He wants to know about each tattooing and about these sexy models. I am damn sure, the kid already has enough knowledge in this area, along with much more curiosity left behind the scene. I' ld bet, He' ld become a master in these areas in another 2 years, which in my view, a lot to carry or process in a little intellectual mind.
On the positive note, The kid is going to understand the art of relationship and idea about love and care. He ll not have any second thought on that, and will not compromise his standards on relationship or marriage. He ld turn out to be an awesome dad or partner, provided he meets the right person for his personality.
But I am very concerned about his little brain to process with these sensitive images in magazine. And more concerned about what this kid could leak out to his fellow kids in his school, and how other little kids going to process/pass that information.
Think about this little boy, who may get into a relationship tomorrow, with someone who has been raised in right blend of values. He ld not just pass what he has got in his mind, but would definitely influence the partner, since thats what his belief system is, reason being thats what his mind is being conditioned and convinced with , thro' out his entire childhood. In that way, he would affect another girl (hopefully not a guy ;)) whom he is going to be in relationship with. He also may pass on the right idea of love and understanding between couple. But if his partner is not able to deal his matured intellect on those areas, girl may leave the relationship with scar and fear. In this way, this kid really will affect the other woman in his future. Lets go to the next step and assume, they will have a kid. The future kid will get inherited with "the same intellect mind" from dad. And story will continue from generation to generation.
This is just an example , where my mind absorbed and looked an exaggerated example on parenting. But there are lot other parents, who are totally on to themselves , selfish, hypocrites, obsessed about their career or wealth or beauty, too proud of nothing, arrogant and strict in the name of disciplining kids, blowing petty issues out of proportion on any matter, sadists, pampering kids too much, not knowing what the other side of the world into, not having awareness or empathy about poor or sufferers, dominant, still living in male chauvinistic world, on wrong morale values or ethics, still thinking that wealth or money-making is considered success of the humans, too diplomatic or wicked. My list could go on.. but I hate to put lot of negative words on my blog :) Where is the society going? Parents.. Please take some personal time to see what your child observes from you.
I wont say it is just kids mistake, when they grow up. Any soul on this earth may not be responsible for his/her first 15 to 20 years of life, where parents idea of raising kid supercedes childhood's innocense. And later on thats what becomes kid's school of fabric.
In my view, what parents pass on kid, thats what kids carry on their belief systems. Every parent is capable of either passing on a virus or right character to the future society. So please be wise enough, be a human!
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