Recently I was striking a conversation with few of Interns at work, during a hallway discussion. And I wasn't surprised to hear about the staring stories, they get from male coworkers. I understand it kind of leaves women in awkward place, when they are getting noticed on personal body parts by their own colleagues. And while most men know to behave right, we also come across some bad apples now and then. No choice!
Its a known story that women have many challenges comparing to men, most women learnt to carry themselves at best of their skin these days. Irrespective of that , at times we come across a colleague or boss who is staring at female colleagues, leaving the whole situation quite awkward. Though Women usually pick jokes at these kind of males and have a good laugh with fellow women, we cant deny the fact we avoid to interact with those kind of 'hungry mama's own sons' ;).
What can we do about it? Of course if it gets ugly to the level of affecting productivity to business, definitely it is recommended to bring these matter to HR. But we also think twice before heading to HR, because most of these men are sole bread winners in family. We dont want to affect somebody's career on these matters. Most girls, i know.. live with it. And as ages pass by, you will learn to ignore these idiots and move on.
Dressing up or dolling up is beautiful feeling in a woman's world. Who doesn't like it? All of us are happy to show off a fat closet and we feel pride in doing that. We feel elevated when we get noticed by hot people or getting nicer comments. Absolutely no debate! But howsoever, should we dress up sexy for a workplace? Should we dress up colorful for a workplace? Should we dress up to show our hard-earned toned body at workplaces? IS that necessary? Though some of us can say , we cant help pervert eyes, Truth is we represent ourselves via our clothing. Its our body, it our image. We show our personality via our dressing. Its we, our own inner-self which gets reflected via our dressing. So we need to dress up appropriate to the place. We have different audience to show off the sexy outfits;).. lets save them for right eyes!
It doesn't make sense to go on a turtleneck to clubbing. Similarly its not going to win any medal, to dress up odd for workplace. A sexy outfit will not yield anything at workplace, but catches wrong eye's attention. A great makeup skill will not get better appraisal results at workplace. If we have a weird male coworker, we need be "The woman" and solve the situation in a diplomatic way, foreseeing longrun professional relationship. Thats the beauty of a grown up girl! We are big girls! We never do things wrong! Stay beautiful sweethearts!
Its a known story that women have many challenges comparing to men, most women learnt to carry themselves at best of their skin these days. Irrespective of that , at times we come across a colleague or boss who is staring at female colleagues, leaving the whole situation quite awkward. Though Women usually pick jokes at these kind of males and have a good laugh with fellow women, we cant deny the fact we avoid to interact with those kind of 'hungry mama's own sons' ;).
What can we do about it? Of course if it gets ugly to the level of affecting productivity to business, definitely it is recommended to bring these matter to HR. But we also think twice before heading to HR, because most of these men are sole bread winners in family. We dont want to affect somebody's career on these matters. Most girls, i know.. live with it. And as ages pass by, you will learn to ignore these idiots and move on.
Dressing up or dolling up is beautiful feeling in a woman's world. Who doesn't like it? All of us are happy to show off a fat closet and we feel pride in doing that. We feel elevated when we get noticed by hot people or getting nicer comments. Absolutely no debate! But howsoever, should we dress up sexy for a workplace? Should we dress up colorful for a workplace? Should we dress up to show our hard-earned toned body at workplaces? IS that necessary? Though some of us can say , we cant help pervert eyes, Truth is we represent ourselves via our clothing. Its our body, it our image. We show our personality via our dressing. Its we, our own inner-self which gets reflected via our dressing. So we need to dress up appropriate to the place. We have different audience to show off the sexy outfits;).. lets save them for right eyes!
It doesn't make sense to go on a turtleneck to clubbing. Similarly its not going to win any medal, to dress up odd for workplace. A sexy outfit will not yield anything at workplace, but catches wrong eye's attention. A great makeup skill will not get better appraisal results at workplace. If we have a weird male coworker, we need be "The woman" and solve the situation in a diplomatic way, foreseeing longrun professional relationship. Thats the beauty of a grown up girl! We are big girls! We never do things wrong! Stay beautiful sweethearts!
