While winning is a struggle, keeping up the trophy is another struggle.. Worth it?

In this busy mundane life, how many of us have time to take a pause and understand where we are heading to? At times, we don’t really understand why we are running behind heart's desire. Isn’t it important to understand it’s price? Do we realize where we stand towards the success?  Is the whole race (could  be a ratrace) going to leave us with any energy , to deal  the remaining life’s free-for-all? Do we estimate, how are we going to plan the future once, this being accomplished? Do we want to take time to mitigate this? And do we really understand what it feels once you are possessed with what you chase for? Do we calculate the energy of Winning Vs Maintenance? What's the price of maintenance? I consider myself a practical person who loves to analyze a lot, Hence my thoughts are so… Is this the way everyone think? Aren’t we all different personalities with different thought processes, approaches, life’s lessons and belief systems?

Anyways, On one side, Motivational speeches or Self development books teach you how to win the game. On other side, religious gurus or philosophers make you realize that desire is the root cause for all our suffering. So what do we want in life? Heart’s desire OR The Suffering?

If you are a person who doesn’t want to run ratrace, forget the heart's desire and let that go. If you are an aggressive person, go for the challenge where results are not assured.

Now, while talking about Winning & Maintenance, there is another little villain named "decision making" popped in , and then followed by Mr. Confusion who steals your mental energy, who deroutes you for no reason, making you go nowhere.

Can you make a decision and go lifelong without revisiting/regretting about the made-decision? How many of us can really do that?

What do you at this kind of moments?

Different people have different styles. So, I never ask anyone for suggestions, which I am going to follow. I strongly believe in my innerself.  I talk to people, just to understand the high level perspective of the puzzle, which only a third person can give who is not in the same maze. If you change your style, looking at somebody's , that’s not going to stay with you forever. You are just yourself, with your own talents and weakness. You got to simple follow your style ,accepting that happily.

YOU, the ruler of your own life.. Agree? :)